Marriage and Attached

Bridegroom:
I _____, take you ______, to be my wedded wife. To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness or in health, to love and to cherish 'till death do us part. And hereto I pledge you my faithfulness.

Bride:
I, _____, take you ______, to be my wedded husband. To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, 'till death do us part. And hereto I pledge you my faithfulness.

That was a common marriage vows made between two couples, for more sample pls visit http://bible.org/article/sample-wedding-vows

Now a day, RED BOMB keeping flying to my house sia... So many of my friends all getting married. So that question tend to pop up here and there

"WHEN ARE YOU GETTING MARRIED?"
ANS: NOT NOW!

I take this time to congra all my married, soon to marry friends here. Hahahaha.

So why am I blogging this.... Guess what, just now I was watching the news on "GOOD MORNING SINGAPORE" They were talking about the recent issues of Jack Neo and the 22 Model.

"Koaz... give that man a chance!" Why are people always focusing on the negative stuff that ppl do and not look at the positive? Why isnt there a "Mr So and So donated $10000 to help the poor" becoming the focus news?

Hahaha just cant get the world... And why are ppl focusing on ppl negative point and keep on asking them to change? "Hey why are you acting so childish?" "Why you dont have $ in your bank?" "Why this why that" No wonder the world is such a negative place. Unlike in heaven, when He met us, I believe the 1st question He will ask is

"Good and Faith servant of mine, what GOOD things had you done for me?"

Hahahah, if you want the world to be a better place, start focusing on ppl positive point then the negative ba.

Heb 10:25
Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.

One of my aim this year is to keep on encouraging people. To those readers out here, JIAYOU!

K back to purpose of writting this...

Marriage and Attached
What is the different? What is Marriage? What is attached?

For the 1st two questions... dont need to explain too much. But for the last I believe all of us have lots of opinions about it.

What is attached?
Attached is when a couple coming together when they are called "Boyfriend and Girlfriend" Hahhaha. To me, the process of attachment come, when the couples fell in love with one another, and they have a likings with each other (Courtship). As time progess, when they really felt that they are suitable to each other they move in to the phase "MARRIAGE".

So is it a must for all attached couple to go on marriage?
Hahahha the answer is "I DONT KNOW". I believe 90% will say YES (I am part of them) but 10% will say NO. Y... I believed that they found out that during the process of courtship they found out that they dont suit one another. An on the other hand.... there is a marriage vows but there isnt any attached vows. So people out there. Dont have this thinking, once attached no CHANCE liao. Hahaha....

I still remember, when I was in Sec, I always like to go for girls that are attached... Hahahaha, sound so wrong. Yes it is wrong sia. How can you break ppl up? "SORRY FOR ALL THE STUPID THINGS I HAVE DONE WHEN I WAS YOUNG, will you forgive me =p"

Look, if you found out that you found ur MR RIGHT OR MISS RIGHT but they are attached how? Break them up lor! (that what I will do when I was young, put pepper and salt into their relationship, to bring in some favour). Of cause not tt why lar... just work toward somethings that you believe that will b good for your future.

I spoke to a friend, that what is the reply "Draw a line, maintain as friendship" I totally agree with that. I believe everything started from friendship then if you felt that "Hey, she/he is MR and MISS RIGHT." that when you become open to he/she.

the 3 ship that are found in your life.
Friendship --> Courtship --> Marriageship (if there really such a word)

To all couples out there... Treasure all those good time together, and really aim to move toward marriage. Marriage is the best gift that He gave to us to enjoy. So please be serious in your courtship period, cause you wont want to be part of an unhappy marriage.

bu zai hu tian chang di jiu, zhi zai hu cheng jin yong you

To all those married couple, JIAYOU and stay in love with each other always.

bai tou dao lao

Anyway, I am doing fine ppl, just lots of work to do.

See you next time.